My Family Ceviche

What does a young wife cook for her husband when she has no idea how to cook? That was the major reason why I did not want to ever get married. I was never one of those girls that dreamed about getting married one day. In fact, I often joked about how I would never have kids, have a dozen boyfriends, live on my own by the time I was 21, and about how and if  I ever got married, I was going to have a maid and a housekeeper to run my house because I would be rich one day. That was far from my reality by the time I was 22 years old. Here I was, 22 years old, newly married, and no idea of how I was going to make things work. I knew there would be no way I could fake it. I had run away from the kitchen my whole life, and now there would be no turning back and I was petrified to tell my new husband that he would either starve or have to learn to cook for himself. Lucky for me things worked in my favor since the day after my wedding.

Our first honeymoon location was in Mazatlán, Culiacan, Mexico. We had room service and cocktails on the beach and it was wonderful. Our next stop would be the real test. My husband decided we would go to Sinaloa, Culiacan, Mexico because his father lived there and he had not made the trip to the United States for the wedding.  When we arrived to his father’s house, we rang the doorbell and he yelled from somewhere in the back of the house. “I’m back here!”. We went towards the back yard and he was sitting on a chair with a table full of ingredients I recognized. Red onions, cilantro, cucumbers, tomatoes, fresh jalapeños, avocados, tostadas, shrimp and octopus. We were making ceviche, the one dish I knew very well.

I grew up with a single mother and every time she went in to the kitchen to cook, she would ask me to go help and I refused because I felt like I had no business in there. My mother was not fond of cooking either so she would typically make dishes that were quick and easy and her idea of a fancy meal was cheese enchiladas topped with cotija cheese and pickled onions, with a side of whole pinto beans and sopa de arroz (Mexican rice). Although we are Mexican, she rarely kept tortillas in the house, so the tortillas were a real treat.

But sometimes there was work to be done in the kitchen because we were going to have guests. This meant, ceviche de pescado (fish). This was her go-to meal for serving up something extra special, but it required help from everyone. My sisters and I chopped the vegetables while she cut up any type of white fish that was on sale and we all got to feast with our family guests. Now, I was a guest at my in laws’ home.

I felt a huge sense of relief because I knew my role immediately when I saw the spread of ingredients that my father in law had for us.  In that afternoon, I learned that ceviche was my husband’s favorite meal and that I was already an expert at making it. Through the years, making ceviche became a family tradition in my home. Whenever there is a special occasion or at my children’s request, we sit at the table, grab a knife and chop away at the ingredients to make a delicious ceviche, as a family.

The recipe consists of 4 lbs. or medium shrimp which will need to be peeled and deveined, and finally washed thoroughly.

You will need 2 small cans of baby clams and save the juice of one of the cans:

Next you will need to dice the shrimp and place in a bowl along with the baby clams and the juice from one of cans and put to the side while you prepare your vegetables

You will need the following vegetables:

5 small diced tomatoes

4 diced fresh jalapeños

1 seeded sliced cucumber

1 diced large red onion

1 chopped, small cilantro bunch

1 tablespoon salt

Dash of pepper

5 juiced lemons

8-10 juiced limes

Mix the juice of lemons and limes. Use about ¾ the juice to pour over the shrimp and baby clams. The remainder should be placed in another bowl with all the vegetables.

The next step is to leave the shrimp and baby clams, and the mixed vegetable soaking with the lemon and lime juice mixture in the refrigerator for at least 4 hours.

The final step is to mix all the ingredients into one bowl and add the salt and pepper:

Enjoy as an appetizer or main dish on a tostada or with tortilla chips.

You can turn this recipe into a fun activity with family or friends by getting everyone to help chopping and preparing while talking at the table. It is a great opportunity to sit together and chat.

The One and Only: LAUSD Coffee Cake

If you grew up in one of the Los Angeles neighborhoods that belonged to the Los Angeles Unified School District (LAUSD), and you were a student at one of the schools within the district from the 1960’s through the 1970’s, you had the opportunity to enjoy cafeteria food that was freshly made by cafeteria cooks on the premises. During this time, you were probably not enjoying the most nutritious food in the world, but quite frankly, homecooked meals during that time were probably filled with equally unhealthy nutritional value. According to an L.A. Weekly online article, LAUSD continues to struggle to provide healthy food lunches for its students (Alimurung, 2011). However, if you were a student during that time period and you lived in homes with one or two working parents or if your family had limited funds for food, then the meals at school were a precious commodity because they would have been the closest thing to an actual homecooked meal. While classes were taking place, there were many dishes that were prepared by the lunch ladies, which were endeared and known on campus on a first name basis.  They made chimichangas, peanut butter cookies, French bread pizza, hamburgers and French fries, but out of all the dishes that they conjured up, none reigned supreme such as the coffee cake.

This was evident when about nine years ago one of my Facebook groups, dedicated to the Boyle Heights neighborhood area of Los Angeles appropriately named, You Know You Are From Boyle Heights When….,  was in a frenzy with comments with excitement about the rare and special treat that many of us had the pleasure to enjoy as children. Someone got a hold of the original Old-Fashioned Coffee Cake -1954 recipe and posted it online

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Many of my online friends reshared the recipe directly with me and also reshared it with the list of their own friends or publicly for the world to see. This was such a great surprise to my online friends and to me because we never imagined that the recipe existed. I asked myself, could this actually be the real deal? How did someone get a hold of the recipe? I must admit I had the urge to try baking it, even though I rarely bake, because I did not want to miss the opportunity to get a slice of the sweet treat. Then I had to ask myself, in a world filled with so many specialty coffee/bakery shops, gourmet bakeries, and access to a world filled with online recipes to bake just about anything we can imagine and crave, why did we all get so excited to read about the recipe?

As I continued to read through some of the comments on my Facebook feed, one common theme stood out to me about my friends and the friends of my friends.  We all lived and shared childhood memories from several neighborhoods, spanning decades, and the common connection bringing us together were our childhood memories that included the coffee cake. Some of the comments on my friends feed were as follows:

 

“Some of my best memories growing up were having the cinnamon, buttery treat for breakfast”

 

“This was the best ever and I haven’t had anything better since”

 

“I remember scraping up the last of my change to be able to buy a coffee cake and remembering that it was so worth it”

 

“Having the coffee cake was the best part of my day growing up”

 

“For real, I remember buying other kids’ piece because 1 wasn’t enough. I sure would pay now for a few pieces”

“Nothing tastes as good as childhood, thanks for the memories!!!”

 

“Someone asked me if I knew what LAUSD coffee cake was? I almost fainted”

 

We all seemed to have wonderful memories about the experience of looking forward to eating the coffee cake made on location at one of the many schools located in the L.A. area anytime between the 1960’s to the early 1980’s. Then as I read more comments, I grew more curious about what I was reading and I began searching the internet for more information about the validity of the recipe and I found a blog that made mention of the coffee cake and the memories it brought to so many.

Author Jen Jenk posted a blog on Devourtheworld.com about the coffee cake recipe on November 30, 2009. Jenk stated, “It was our go-to snack/breakfast during recess. You know…back in the day when calories didn’t mean anything because you could burn it off simply by breathing” (Jenk, 2009). Simply put, this coffee cake was enjoyed by everyone as carefree children. A user named Lolly writes: “I am a product of the LAUSD edu-machine (Eagle Rock High School) and this coffee cake was about the only thing enjoyable about that time” (Jenk, 2009). Another user named Roxie Johnson writes, “In junior high I would always ask for seconds. And yes, it was that good” (Jenk, 2009). A user by the name of Whiteg even cited that the coffee cake was “the only reason he/she attended school” (Jenk, 2009).  This recipe seems to be unforgettable and the name is instantly recognizable. It is clear that the mere mention of the LAUSD coffee cake brings about good memories for everyone, including my own family.

I began a conversation with my husband about the coffee cake and his first response was, “I used to fight for it in school”. I could not believe what I was hearing and when I asked why, he went on to explain that the neighborhood he grew up in was really poor and that no one was willingly going to give up the extra special treat. Therefore, him and his friends would challenge each other to fight one another in order to win an extra slice. My husband grew up in one of the poorest neighborhood areas in Boyle Heights named the Estrada Courts housing projects. His mother was single and struggled to keep food on the table and a stable rood over his head.  I believe that, like most of us, he finds it difficult to talk about the tough times during his childhood because quite frankly, it’s probably hurtful. He told me that when he thinks about his childhood memories, he tries to focus on the good parts and for him, the good parts include the food lunches he enjoyed during his childhood and the company of his schoolmates- even though he fought with some of them.

I grew up in Boyle Heights, California and I attended grade schools in the LAUSD until 1988. I grew up with a single mother and two younger sisters, each 11 months apart. My sisters and I were very close and my mother raised us with very “old school” ideas. She arrived to the United States, from Mexico, in 1968 and she refused to fully adopt new ideas, basically American ones, of child rearing. My mother was very controlling, when we were kids; she had us attend church daily at 7:00 A.M., we needed to complete daily chores, get good grades at school and at home we only ate for sustenance in order to avoid practicing gluttony. Of course being little girls, we did not understand her “crazy ideas” and we blamed her backward ways on the fact that she was from Mexico and that if we listened to her, we would be crazy just like her and we wanted desperately fit in with all of the other kids at our school. By the time I was in the third grade, I realized that there was a loop hole in her plan to control us; the schooltime lunches. My mother worked a lot and she did not have time to pack us lunches, therefore, she was forced to accept whatever the school served us. To our joy, the school served a wonderful, sinful, warm, cinnamon, sweet treat that we would have never, in our wildest dreams, enjoyed at home because it was too good! Whenever the coffee cake was baked at our school, you would be able to smell the butter, soft bread, cinnamon, and the nutmeg from the minute you stepped onto the school grounds. My sisters and I knew for a fact that if our mom knew how good and scrumptious the coffee cake was, she would have forbidden us from eating it, so we enjoyed every bit of it, every chance we had.

I thought about what the coffee cake meant to my sisters and me so when I decided to write about the recipe, I shared it with them. My sisters instantly remembered the sinful enjoyment of the coffee cake. My youngest sister, Ruby, is a baker and when I mentioned the coffee cake recipe, she immediately became excited and wanted to try and replicate the recipe. She offered to bake the coffee cake at her house, with the help of her teenage daughters and she insisted we make a special occasion out of it. She invited my sister Jennifer and me, along with our families. We made a plan to not to tell our children the back story about the coffee cake until we were ready to eat it because we wanted to test their reaction.

First, we bought all the ingredients in the recipe:

Next, we followed the recipe instructions to separate ingredients into different bowls:

Next, we started the longest process which was to slowly mix ingredients in the separate bowls:

Finally, the last step was to pour the batter of mixed ingredients onto the baking sheet, and wait patiently while it baked.

The final product was great.

The smell of the coffee cake was unmistakably familiar. The aroma and the buttery taste of the warm sugar, flour, cinnamon and nutmeg was so comforting and nostalgic. It was like being a kid again. Our family agreed that the coffee cake was delicious but they didn’t understand fighting for it or the buzz on social media. As stated by Alexandra Sifferlin, “Of course, what counts as comfort food is different person to person” (Sifferlin, 2015). My sister and I rejoiced because we got to share a little bit of our childhood and that was truly memorable.

I recalled the special memories of the warm delicious slice of cake and I realized that it is our best version of nostalgia. The coffee cake was special to all of the Facebook users, the blog readers and to my husband for different reasons, however, the feeling of comfort seemed to be the same because the feelings attached to the enjoyment of the coffee cake linked us directly to memories of the best part of our days growing up, including me.

 

References:

Alimurung, G. (2011, June 16). LA Weekly. Retrieved from WHY LOS ANGELES SCHOOLKIDS GET LOUSY MEALS: https://www.laweekly.com/why-los-angeles-schoolkids-get-lousy-meals/

Jenk, J. (2009, November 30). LAUSD Coffee Cake. Retrieved from Devour the World: One bite at a time, living the experimental life: https://devourtheworld.com

Sifferlin, A. (2015, 07 29). Diet & Nutrition The Science of Why You Crave Comfort Food. Retrieved from Time : https://time.com

One of Lupita’s favorites

Hello everyone my name is Lupita and this is my first year at Cal State Dominguez Hills and I am planning to graduate within the next 2 years.

I am not sure if snacks count as a food but I wanted to share this new favorite snack of mine from Disneyland that I have labeled as a food because it filled me up so well that I could not eat another bite of anything for the rest of the day.This is the new chocolate covered pineapple spear. It is the most fulfilling, perfect combination of rich, sweet and creamy milk and white chocolate mix that completely covers a sugary, sweet and juicy pineapple spear. When you eat it be prepared to have plenty of napkins available because the flavors begin melting into each other immediately after the first bite, but do not worry because you will only be left with the stick that holds it together.